Biblical DISC Couples Relationship Report Guide

Thank you for taking this step in building a more positive and fulfilling relationship with one another. Completing the Biblical DISC Assessment is a fantastic way to learn how to love each other more.

The Relationship Report provides the two of you a blueprint of your behavioral styles, highlighting side-by-side similar and dissimilar tendencies. The report also reveals specific areas where differences in your behavioral styles can provide unique perspectives on making decisions, solving problems, and communicating effectively. These perspectives can sometimes lead to potential misunderstandings, and the Relationship Report offers possible solutions for conflict resolution.

RELATIONSHIP REPORT GUIDE

Here are a few suggestions on how to get the most out of your Relationship Report with one another:

Start with the Biblical DISC Assessment (BDA):
- Individually spend some time reviewing your BDA to learn more about your behavioral tendencies.
- Specifically pages 1-16 of the BDA to learn more about you as a person.
Move to the Relationship Report (RR):
- Individually review pages 5-8 and highlight sentences on each page that you especially agree with about yourself and about your spouse.
- Then fill in the blanks on pages 10-13 on the RR.
Set a date!
- Plan a moment to spend some uninterrupted time reviewing your BDAs together and then move to your RRs.
- Read aloud to each other your fill-in-the-blank pages (pp. 10-13) and share any insights you learned about one another.
- Here are some questions you may consider asking one another:
  - Were there any surprises for you about yourself or me? If so, what were they?
  - What new insights did you learn about me?
  - What are some strengths we have as a couple?
  - How will it help us to know more about one another?
  - What strengths are we missing as a couple?
  - How might some of our differences or similarities cause us some challenges?
  - How will we adapt or modify our behavior to improve our communication?
- After completing this exercise, review page 9 in your RRs and consider asking one another:
  - As a High ____ do you feel these options presented are a good way to respond to you?
  - As a High ____ do you feel these options presented are a good way to relate to you?
  - As a High ____ do you feel these options presented are a good way to reinforce you?
- After doing these activities, complete the Relationship Action Plan on page 14 in your RRs and review with one another.
  - Know that this is an action plan designed to help you grow deeper in your relationship and plant seeds on how the two of you will love one another more deeply knowing what you know about each other’s behavioral style, strengths, struggles, and needs/wants.